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Less is more, and tarnished is better

by Herb Ruhs, MD, Unknown News       April 16, 2008

Cultures always die from their most successful inventions. Our culture is dying from our success in marketing.

Most of my life I was immersed in the advertising culture. Its effects linger, but, as a result of years of not watching TV or listening to commercial radio, not reading mass market magazines, avoiding to the point of compulsion any and all advertising messages and promotional campaigns, I am in recovery. Only now do I begin to see the insanity of responding to messages that contain words ending in "-er" or that include
the concepts of more, free or improved.

However, I doubt if I will ever completely recover, at the level of behavior. The conditioning is just too deep. I still use too much shampoo, too much toilet paper (why does it have to be white anyway?) and too much of many things that I know, at a conscious intellectual level, I can do without or are perhaps even harmful to me (get thee away from me, refined sugar!). I still want to keep the thermostat at 75 in the winter and 65 in the summer, but I resist. I have learned to enjoy the warmth of a sweater or a fan instead.

As a result of my recovery, I find many public places uncomfortable. The mall, for example, is maddening -- too noisy, too hot or too cold, depending on the season, too rushed and stocked with too little of what I am looking for. Popular music blaring from ubiquitous speakers sends me running. In almost every space I need to transit -- a waiting room, any store, even coffee shops, where I would like to find refuge and a simple cup of tea -- I am assaulted by marketing, and attempted seduction to impulse buying. I end up feeling diminished and disrespected. So I spend a lot of time at home. Saves a lot on gas, though.

As our nation enters a time of involuntary austerity and material sobriety, we will






OLD &
   NOT AT ALL
      IMPROVED!






need to begin de-conditioning
ourselves from the effects of a lifetime of advertising excess. It will be painful, but necessary.

What has helped me most is to try to think of imperfection as a sign of grace. My beat-up auto is practically burglar-proof, even though the doors are unlocked. My old clothes really are softer and more comfortable. Food prepared from scratch may not be a success every time, but on the average it tastes better. Produce that has been nibbled on by pests inspires more confidence than the perfect items on display, because I understand now that if eating it did not kill the pest it is less likely to be killing me. Insects are my food testers. Looking better is not being better.

Please spare me from bigger, better, prettier, brighter, quicker, faster, cleaner, cooler, hotter, freer, slimmer, fitter, fancier, trendier and more of anything than I need to get through my day.

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